Coconut Grove, Miami

A voice for everyone in the cabin.

Gailen David is a writer, satirist and advocate for passengers and crew alike, guided by a lifelong enthusiasm for the airline industry, twenty-four years in the aisle, and care for the people who keep the planes flying.

Gailen David outside Miami City Hall, the former Pan Am Dinner Key terminal
At Miami City Hall, once Pan Am's Dinner Key terminal

What he works on today

Four pieces of work, all grown from the same 24 years of galley coffee and jump-seat conversations: how travel should feel, how the industry's choices land on the people in its cabins, who stands up for the crew, and the history worth keeping.

Civility in the cabin

Jetiquette®

Travel Kindly.

A traveler lifting a bag into the overhead bin, the kind of small courtesy Jetiquette is about

The reference for how we treat each other in transit, since 2006: rules for every stage of a trip, and a column answering readers' questions. The hope is simple: a kinder trip for everyone on board, passengers and crew alike.

Comedy in the boardroom

Aluminum Lady HDQ

The Queen of the Airline Industry

The Aluminum Lady at Airlines for Airlines

A fictional executive born during American's 2011 bankruptcy to satirize corporate spin. She is headquarters in her own words, and she goes after fee schedules, scheduling software and earnings-call language, never the person at the gate. Her early videos cost her creator his airline career and drew a lawsuit, later withdrawn. She now presides over "Airlines for Airlines" at 100 Deregulation Drive, issuing HDQ memos, Jetiquette Judge rulings, and the series "As The Carousel Turns."

Written and performed by Gailen, and produced with his team at Parodactive Studios in Miami.

History on the ground

The First Flight Out™

Vintage Airline Goods & Aviation History

The First Flight Out

Vintage airline goods, grown from the Pan Am exhibit and emporium he and Stephen Licata ran at CocoWalk for seven years. The full exhibit is on hiatus while the collection waits for a permanent public home, and a share of every sale supports that work.

VisitThe First Flight Out department at Palm Produce Resortwear, 3439 Main Highway, in the heart of Coconut Grove, surrounded by historic photography from Pan Am's years in the Grove.

Its not-for-profit arm, the Air History Project, is dedicated to public education in aviation history, centered on the Pan American Airways story in Coconut Grove, and to a permanent public home for the collection.

Solidarity in the crew room

Association of Flight Attendants-CWA

Mobilization Coordinator

Association of Flight Attendants-CWA

AFA is the union that speaks for flight attendants across the country, and its fights over rest, staffing and cabin safety make flying safer for crew and passengers alike. Gailen helps flight attendants at AFA carriers stand together through contract talks and beyond, from the picket line to the member survey.

Twenty-four years in the uniform taught him what a good contract protects. This is where that lesson goes to work.

The Aluminum Lady with the cast of As The Carousel Turns
The Aluminum Lady and the cast of As The Carousel Turns

Twenty-four years in the air, and still looking out for the people on board.

Gailen David spent 24 years with American Airlines, most of them as an International Purser out of Miami, and spent much of that time on one question: how travel could treat people better. He began writing and speaking about it as Jetiquette in 2006, put it in a book, Jetiquette...The Customer Experience and You, and helped train fellow crews. In 2012, during American's bankruptcy, his costumed videos and his blog called out the gap between what executives said and what they did. They cost him the job. He kept the character, and the fuller story is in the timeline.

Home is Coconut Grove, five minutes from the seaplane terminal where Pan American first connected Miami to the world. From there he looks after three things he cares about: a travel-etiquette guide called Jetiquette, a satirical airline executive called the Aluminum Lady, and The First Flight Out, a vintage-airline brand whose not-for-profit arm, the Air History Project, keeps the Pan Am story alive in the Grove. Alongside all three, he works with the Association of Flight Attendants-CWA for the crews he flew beside. Most days start with writing, the part of the work he enjoys most.

"It's more important than ever for people to be considerate of each other."

Gailen David, DC Modern Luxury, 2016
24
Years with American Airlines
2006
Jetiquette begins
2011
The Aluminum Lady appears
1977
Collecting airline history

His story, from a ten-year-old's travel agency to today

Airline history, a career in the aisle, and what came after.

1977

A young travel planner

At age 10, Gailen runs an amateur travel agency for his neighbors, with encouragement from Eastern Airlines, and begins collecting airline memorabilia, Pan Am's among the first. While his friends had paper routes, he collected timetables to help neighbors plan their trips.

1988

Wings at nineteen

He joins American Airlines as a flight attendant, eventually flying as an International Purser out of Miami. He trains fellow pursers along the way.

2006

Jetiquette

He starts speaking about travel manners under a name of his own, Jetiquette. USA Today profiles him as an "ambassador of civilized travel" the following November; the Sky Steward persona and the book follow, and in 2008 the Jetiquette program receives Travel Weekly's Magellan Award.

2011

The Aluminum Lady

During American's Chapter 11 bankruptcy, he creates a fictional airline executive to satirize corporate spin. The videos go viral among airline crews.

2012

The cost of speaking up

While American asks employees to take pay cuts and customers to accept cutbacks, his blog reveals executives having paying first-class passengers moved to economy to make room for themselves, often with family. American fires him in March and sues in April. The airline drops the suit when he agrees not to share any further flight information about its executives; his union grievance ends in a settlement, and he keeps the character.

2013

The First Flight Out

He and Stephen Licata open a Pan Am exhibit and emporium on CocoWalk's second floor: cased artifacts, a history wall, a walk-in 747 cabin with uniformed hosts, no admission charge. It runs seven years.

2014

National television

"Take Off! with the Savvy Stews" premieres, and a Savvy Stews segment wins a Telly Award. Two flight attendants bring working airline experience to television.

2016

The Jet Set

He co-creates and executive-produces television's first travel-themed talk show, syndicated nationally. He co-hosts through 2019.

2020

The Air History Project

CocoWalk closes for redevelopment and the exhibit comes down, its donated collection intact. He and Stephen Licata form a nonprofit to give Miami's Pan Am story a permanent public home.

2021

The First Flight Out returns as a boutique

The First Flight Out returns as a department within Palm Produce Resortwear, the chain of clothing stores his partner started in 1984, with a focus on vintage airline-themed merchandise. The Coconut Grove store is filled with historic photography from the 1930s and 40s, when Pan Am's international operations were based in the Grove. BarWair, Gailen's own line of aviation-inspired cocktail accessories, launches the same year, while the full exhibit stays on hiatus until the collection has a permanent home.

2022

The Aluminum Lady returns

Parodactive Studios relaunches the Aluminum Lady with an expanded portfolio: airline management, plus union-busting wherever it turns up, from Amazon to Starbucks.

Today

The work continues

He writes about travel, guides Jetiquette, works with AFA-CWA for flight attendants, and keeps the Pan Am story alive in Coconut Grove, with the Aluminum Lady still issuing memos from HDQ.

From the archive: his 2008 book and the Pan Am exhibit's opening day

Jetiquette...The Customer Experience and You (2008), and the Miami Herald's story on the CocoWalk opening in January 2013.

Cover of Jetiquette...The Customer Experience and You

The book, 2008

Jetiquette...The Customer Experience and You turns his years in the aisle into a guide to service: how to treat the people in front of you well, in a cabin or anywhere else.

Find it on Amazon

Pan Am exhibit opens at CocoWalk, 2013

"Exhibit brings Pan Am back to life," by Tom Falco of the Coconut Grove Grapevine, in the Miami Herald.

Read the clipping
DC Modern Luxury, Men of Style, 2016
DC Modern Luxury feature: Gailen David, co-founder of the travel TV show The Jet Set, photographed on the show's set, with his quote about the Golden Age of travel and Jetiquette

Gailen David. Co-founder of the recently launched travel TV show The Jet Set, the broadcaster aims to bring luxury back to the travel experience.

"I watched the travel industry change so much from the Golden Age. When I started as a flight attendant for American Airlines, it was right at the tail end of the best of times. Flying was becoming mass transportation. I was at American for almost 25 years, and I started producing a lot of the company's videos and writing its curriculum for conferences, which got me into production. When I was at American, I had my own opinions about what would make travel better, and I just started going on morning news shows all over the United States, providing tips and talking about jetiquette. It's more important than ever for people to be considerate of each other. Bobby Laurie and I developed the idea for The Jet Set (thejetset.tv) and created a whole talk show around travel – bringing you back to the Golden Age of travel [some parts of the set are crafted from a deconstructed Boeing 747], and now we're able to bring anything into the conversation."

Reproduced from DC Modern Luxury magazine, "Men of Style," 2016.

The Miami Herald, January 24, 2013, Coconut Grove Grapevine
Miami Herald, January 24, 2013: Exhibit brings Pan Am back to life, by Tom Falco

Reproduced from The Miami Herald, January 24, 2013. Article by Tom Falco, Coconut Grove Grapevine.

Topics he writes and speaks about

The subjects closest to his heart, in or out of character.

Passenger conduct and etiquette

Seat disputes, boarding, and what Jetiquette asks of travelers and airlines alike.

Satire and airline leadership

How the Aluminum Lady uses humor to question decisions made at the top, in or out of character.

Airline labor and crew life

Fair contracts, standing together, and the view from the jump seat, informed by 24 years wearing the uniform.

Aviation history and heritage

Pan Am, Eastern, Dinner Key, and the case for giving Miami's aviation past a permanent home.

For reporters: bios, a headshot and a direct email

One email or the form below reaches him directly.

Bios

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Headshot

High-resolution photo at Miami City Hall. Download JPG

Questions people ask most

Who he is, what Jetiquette is, and why American fired him.

Who is Gailen David?

A former flight attendant and International Purser who flew 24 years with American Airlines (1988 to 2012). Today he guides Jetiquette, the travel-etiquette project he started in 2006, plays the satirical airline executive the Aluminum Lady, and co-founded The First Flight Out and its not-for-profit arm, the Air History Project, in Coconut Grove, Miami. He also works with the Association of Flight Attendants-CWA, helping flight attendants organize and mobilize.

What is Jetiquette?

Gailen's guide to how we treat each other in transit, started in 2006, with rules for every stage of a trip and a column answering readers' questions. The full guide lives at Jetiquette.org.

Who is the Aluminum Lady?

A fictional airline executive Gailen created in 2011, during American's bankruptcy, to satirize corporate spin. She presides over Airlines for Airlines and the series As The Carousel Turns at AluminumLady.com.

Why did American Airlines fire Gailen David?

In March 2012, over the Aluminum Lady videos and his blog, which revealed that executives who asked employees to take pay cuts were having paying first-class passengers moved to economy to make room for themselves, often with family. American sued the following month, then dropped the case when he agreed not to share any further flight information about its executives; his union grievance ended in a settlement, and he kept the character.

What are The First Flight Out and the Air History Project?

The First Flight Out is a retail brand devoted to vintage airline-themed goods, grown from the Pan Am exhibit and emporium Gailen and Stephen Licata ran at CocoWalk for seven years. That exhibit is on hiatus; until the collection has a permanent home, The First Flight Out is a department inside Palm Produce at 3439 Main Highway in Coconut Grove. The Air History Project is its not-for-profit arm, dedicated to public education in aviation history, centered on the Pan American Airways story in Coconut Grove, and working toward a permanent public home for its collection.

How do I reach Gailen David?

Email gailen@gailendavid.com or use the contact form on this page; both go straight to him.

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gailen@gailendavid.com

Coconut Grove, Miami, Florida

More about Jetiquette lives at Jetiquette.org, and the preservation work at AirHistoryProject.com.